I have 3 ideas spinning in my head and I'd love to hear your input in regard to them.
1. Educating Bais Yakovs in the Myerrs Briggs science. There are 4 basic personality types:
ST - bottom line ppl
SF - helping people ( practically)
NT - visionary systems
NF - visionary inspirers
In order for any organization to succeed at its max we need ALL four voices to be HEARD. When we miss out on any voice there will be gaps in the institution.
Be aware that in every personality type there is the healthy and unhealthy range. So there may be all four personality types in an institution yet all four VOICES may not be HEARD.
The dominant personality type in America is ESTJ. So people that are wavering between any of their letters will tend to go towards one of these.
For some reason ( I feel ) that the dominant personality type in lkwd women is istj isfj estj and esfj ( enfj and intj fit in pretty nicely as well.)
Therefore, what I feel is happening in the lkwd schools, specifically amongst girls, is that the girls that have a personality dif than the above have no voice. ( unless they can somehow learn the art of speaking the above voices)
So what we have here is a bunch of girls, some of them being authentic and some of them being inauthentic to themselves. When a girl is not authentic with her real self, she loses her a. Attractiveness to men and b. Her confidence with herself - which then leads her to all the gashmiyus and stupidities of the world....
Hence we have here the shidduch crisis as well as the rat race of living.
As far as the principals at considered I think they are either NTs or STs like you said. The only way to get through to the T's (especially STs) is to have people TALK. To rile up the town about the injustice going on ( and not to bully people into saying that these topics are Lashon Horah) and slowly they will have no choice but to hear the other sides. (Otherwise the donors will not give money...)
I am still uncertain ( if I would go about doing this) HOW to educate schools and get this message over to people. And which people I would really want to target. I would appreciate your input.
2. To empower women by speaking about their role as nurturers. To really teach what a wife and a mother is. To educate women about their ability to be an individual who is different than their next door neighbor. To elaborate on women in Tanach and how they fulfilled their roles. To show women what the Feminist movement has actually done to us.
The way I would go about doing this is through a video blog or regular blog.
3. And lastly, to organize an umbrella organization for all Bais Yakovs. Where each school has to answer up to. They will have standard rules for all Bais Yakovs (I.e. Who they can reject from their school...) a standard curriculum for each grade. And in general a list of guidelines that need to be met for each school. (Is every single child's needs being catered to...)
4. More money in girls schools so there r more choices for girls in their classes. Not every girl is an intellectual and not every girl can take written tests. The boys schools are starting to cater to that idea more with more yeshivos opening up every day. We need to start looking at girls schools In a similar vain.
Sara schenirer did what she needed to do in her generation. Her generation was that of intellect and it was in Europe. We are in a generation of Emotion and we live in America. Our schools cannot run now the way it ran 100 years ago.
We need to come up with some plans on how to improvise this system.